One thing I am genuinely interested in, is the hair length diktat. If they allow women to have long hair, are they not legally obliged to let men have it too, under the sex discrimination laws?
I've been offered jobs in the past, on the condition I cut my hair. I've always asked for said clause to be put in writing, along with the offer, and at that point they got all shifty and either forgot about it, or withdrew the offer.
I'd be intrigued to know if it was legal.